“There comes a day when you realise turning the page is the best feeling in the world – because you realise there’s so much more to the book than the page you were stuck on.”
Long term or unrelenting narcissistic abuse can end up breaking people emotionally and mentally making them feel isolated, unsure of who they are, lacking in confidence and self-esteem and no longer able to recognise their true value. It’s said the Narcissist is the least likely personality type to go for counselling and the most likely to create people who need counselling….
“Believe in yourself and all that you are. Know that there is something inside you that is greater than any obstacle.” Christian D. Larson
“Accept what is, let go of what was and have faith in what will be.” Sonia Ricotti
“Life is a balance between holding on and letting go.” Rumi
“The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson
“Small and hidden is the door that leads inward, and the entrance is barred by countless prejudices, mistaken assumptions and fears” Jung
When Narcissists go on the attack, it’s not because someone has done something to them, it’s because someone has told them “No”. If you refuse to play along with their dramas, you’ve said “No” to being controlled by them – If you speak the truth, you’ve said “No” to their lies – If you go No Contact with them you’ve said “No” to their being the centre of the universe – If you get on with your life you’ve said “No” to validating the twisted way they choose to do things. Saying “No” to Narcissists will unleash their anger – they hate... Read More »
Being AUTHENTIC is a continual process of understanding yourself as well as you can and having the courage to allow this to be seen and heard by others. It makes a big difference to relationships because putting on masks, hiding and pretending puts you out of touch with reality, with others and with your own potential.
A counsellor can help you see how to drive the car of your life better – how to use the brake, accelerator, clutch, mirrors and power for a smoother, more comfortable ride….